This may be a touchy subject for some. Let me say right from the start that PORN in a marriage is not healthy. There is nothing good about porn in your marriage.
Porn is degrading to your spouse and it takes away the ability for you to give 100% respect. When you watch porn your mind thinks and acts in a different way. The mind gets this image of how things should be in the bedroom. The private time and place with your spouse should be for the both of you to enjoy. This is a special time for the two of you to be focused on each other.
When watching porn you are allowing a third party to join you in your relationship. You replace your spouse with another image or someone else mentally. God designed marriage to be between one man and one woman. There is one third party allowed in a marriage and that is God.
Women have enough issues to deal with in everyday life. The TV is filled with how women should look and act. The clothing stores have these plastic models in the window displaying how women should dress. The way society is displaying women is sad. If you walk the mall you will see mothers dressed like their daughters. I am not against looking good and sexy, but good and sexy can be done in a tactful way. There is so much skin being shown out in public anymore that it is degrading to the female gender.
Matthew 5:27-28 (NIV)
“You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.” But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
Today’s Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, I ask that you place your hand upon those who struggle with porn in the marriage. I ask that they might realize that this is not good for the marriage and start putting the spouse above all. For those who want more in their marriage, start putting your focus on your spouse and enjoy each other. Lord, I ask for strength to be given to all men and women to honor each other in marriage. Amen
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