I know that things are not always perfect and that Christians still argue. Let me say as Christians you should argue differently. The key is to not let the argument snowball and get bigger and bigger. Watch your tongue and speak out of love and not anger.

Key Points:

If you are arguing about something while you are in the kitchen, keep it in the kitchen. Solve the issue fast and start being that loving couple again right away.

If you are arguing about one particular thing than keep it to that. Do not bring up other issues or past issues. This argument is now, so work on the now and not the past. The past will not ever be behind you if you keep bringing it up.

Tell your spouse during the argument that you want to focus on solving the problem and that you love them very much. Let them know how you feel when you argue. If you stop what you are doing and focus on the needs at the time, you will be amazed how two people can solve problems before it blows into a major argument.

Psalm 52:2 Your tongue plots destruction; it is like a sharpened razor, you who practice deceit.

James 3:8 but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.

Today’s Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, I ask that you place your hand on people today when they argue. Give them the strength to stop and discuss the issue in a calm, loving, caring way. I ask that you give couples the strength to come before you and ask for your help to solve their problems. I pray for couples today to show respect towards one another and grow in Christ.

In Christ,

Lon & Becky

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