Are you thinking about divorce? Please think about this very carefully.
Divorce does not just affect you and your spouse, it affects the whole family. What greater gift could you give each other than to work out your problems. You have invested in this marriage and you should try to save your investment.
Stop searching the internet for information on divorce, search the internet on saving my marriage, help my marriage, improve my marriage, stop divorce in marriage, fix my marriage and search for CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE WEBSITES.
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Who wins in a divorce? Lawyers win in a divorce. I know several lawyers personally and they are good people. If we don’t run to them for a divorce all the time, maybe this would allow them more time to focus on major problems in our communities. If you went to a lawyer and said I would like a divorce, and if the lawyer said to you “come back in 60 days and we will talk” you would be mad and look for another lawyer. If people would just pause and not go to the lawyers while being mad, maybe the divorce rate would decrease.
I would suggest reading from the bible the following on divorce:
Matthew
Mark
Luke
1 Corinthians
Today’s Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, I ask that you guide couples and give them the strength to want to save their marriage. I ask that you change the hearts of people wanting to divorce and bless those who listen to your word on divorce. Amen
I love this article. I often asked my friends about how they were judging potential boys as marriage partners and the topic of “in case we have to get a divorce later,” would come up. I would think, well why bother to even consider marriage to that person if you are already thinking about divorce. Young people these days are really too divorce friendly even before entering a relationship.