A Rocky Marriage
In marriage today it is too easy to walk out. When things get rocky people want to run. This is not the answer.
The answer is to grow up. Sit down together, talk about the problems and how the two of you can fix the problems you are facing. It may be beyond the two of you, I would suggest talking with someone from a church or a biblical counselor. “I would stay away from the standard marriage counselors, family and friends”.
If your marriage is on the rocks it is time to get serious and sweep the rocks up. Talk with your spouse and find out what they need from you to help this marriage out. It takes two to make a marriage work and both parties are to blame when it fails.
One question to ask each other:
1. What do you need from me right now?
Be honest about the answer you give and make sure it is important for yourself and the marriage. If you just throw an answer out there you will get nowhere. Pick a top 3 most important problems you want fixed in the marriage and work on them.
Pray together as a couple, pick the best time that works for the both of you. For my wife and I it is at bedtime. Couples that pray together, stay together.
1 Corinthians 7 (NIV)
The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband.
Today’s Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, I ask that you give couples the strength to come before you and ask for help in marriage. Give them the ability to talk to one another and talk from the heart. I pray for your hand in their time of need to comfort them and direct them. Amen
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